When this woman told me about her experience, I took the lesson and left.
“My mother will be 70. She was widowed in her late twenties. One was too young to understand many things, but Grandma spoke and learned much more than she thought. When my father (my mother’s only son) died in a car accident, my mother had only me and my brother, after which she had two more children. Each child was born to my father’s half-brother.One of the brothers in particular, she couldn’t stand, and it was obvious.But the other brother, she went crazy It seemed
“I could easily tell which of my younger siblings belonged to each man by their looks, but I noticed something. When a man whom a woman despises has a child with her, That child is unlikely to become the apple of her eye. But when the man she loves gives her a baby, the child easily becomes her favorite. After having a baby in , he continued to “see” her whenever he came from the city. Until one day, it wasn’t his visits that my mother received, but his wife’s, who dragged her breastfeeding mother out of the apartment and people took her away. Had already given her her number before. When she was taken away, her farewell words to her mother were, “If my husband ever comes to you again, I will still hear. I hope to see you again.” I learned that the widow of the family told this story. Her mother had in her palm what the woman had plotted. Note her late husband’s “son of the city”.
“After that incident, I stopped witnessing my uncle secretly visit my mother. The traditions that provided obviously did not provide for the welfare of those babies. And we had to survive. I am still grappling with her regret that she was not old enough to protect her mother from her humiliating experience, and the woman suffered from a kind of helplessness. She was still in her teens when her father married her. She couldn’t even control her own body. It was like a tradition passed down unspoken to her. I remember the moment I found her wiping the tears from her cheeks, the next moment she gave her children a brave look.
“Like I was forbidden even to admit my feelings. At least her dignity wouldn’t have been so brazenly scrutinized Part of my struggle after teenage pregnancy was feeling like my rightful place belonged to male pleasure. Even your heart will lose the courage to dream big That’s how much damage society does I’m married today (I have kids) My I can’t help but imagine how my destiny would have played out had the story lacked education and exposure (I moved abroad). My honesty earned me an incredible amount of hostility from my fellow women.
from obi
My message to women who have stumbled in life is to pick yourself up with your story and make self-improvement a legitimate weapon above all else. .
